SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:49:56 AM)
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Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:50:02 AM)
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Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:50:04 AM)
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SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:50:09 AM)
hey connor

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:50:13 AM)
*head perches on the connor*

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:50:16 AM)
so the deal is there's a company called black phoenix alchemy lab

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:50:23 AM)
and they produce a LOT of scents. and a lot of limited time ones

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:50:47 AM)
however, for obvious reasons, most folks dont want to purchase bottles ofe verything. they dont sell samples of the limited stuff either. so what i've done for a couple of years is i order the bottles, break them out into samples, and ship those to the folks who paid me

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:50:50 AM)
On the bright side, they are high quality, and good princes

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:51:04 AM)
that said it leaves me with a lot of bottles that are partially full and a lot of other bottles i've got through freebies/swaps for things, etc.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:51:32 AM)
each one is different, and since they're made with natural oils vs synthetics (like most store stuff), everyone's body chemistry interplays with them

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:51:33 AM)
but yeah, way to many scents and you don't get to try them in person, and some of the best ones are limited time only scents

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:51:45 AM)
so they do not smell the same on any 2 people. i can tell you what notes (ie oils) make up the blend.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:03 AM)
I mean I like them because of the fact they rarely irritate my asthma

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:03 AM)
but i cant tell you what it will smell like on you. i have a list of them that i'll be selling and i can go through and get all the male/unisex ones listed for you at some point later

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:09 AM)
That means nothing to me.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:10 AM)
and now he thinks we're crazy i'm sure brenna.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:15 AM)
LOL

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:23 AM)
So Connor think of it this way

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:33 AM)
I just need a Cologne. I work as a waiter, and i make hella more tips when i smell fresh than when i smell like soap

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:39 AM)
Designer/green cologne

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:39 AM)
oh lol. :D

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:57 AM)
for better then designer prices

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:52:58 AM)
Honestly then Connor, my advice, would be to just go to the store and pick one out that you like

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:05 AM)
:)

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:09 AM)
synthetics aren't bad, they just always smell the same. if that's what you want, that's what you should do.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:23 AM)
I just want to try new things as well

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:26 AM)
I will say they have alot of food scents

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:34 AM)
I tell you what connor

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:38 AM)
how about you just FPM me your address

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:44 AM)
and sometime between now and new years i will just send you some spare samples i have

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:47 AM)
And smelling like cheesecake could help you get tips :)

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:48 AM)
for free.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:53:59 AM)
Or bigger tips

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:01 AM)
You're not gonna show up and have your naughty way with me?

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:08 AM)
not unless you are super local to me

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:16 AM)
and i have a boyfriend

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:17 AM)
:D

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:21 AM)
I swear I find a guy that smells like cheesecake

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:25 AM)
Bring him along.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:34 AM)
Really? When did this happen? *squee*

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:41 AM)
...Connor- he's not in to that

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:48 AM)
Brenna- recently. it's keet. the guy i've known like 9 years

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:48 AM)
lol Neither am I.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:54:53 AM)
we've gone on three dates. we're at "goodnight kiss" stage

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:55:12 AM)
Connor is probaly in the midwest anyway

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:55:25 AM)
So that he's no where near either of us

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:55:46 AM)
One of my coworkers is setting me up on a blind date

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:55:51 AM)
*whimpers*

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:56:15 AM)
Sent

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:56:30 AM)
Actually Right on the eastern seaboard

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:56:59 AM)
Ok, closer to her then

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:13 AM)
Yah, not super close though

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:14 AM)
i keep meeting nice guys online in NC

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:23 AM)
Now I know why

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:23 AM)
I've been to where you are connor, but it's a long drive.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:29 AM)
And SD...I wouldn't break up your relationship.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:32 AM)
I'm not like that.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:33 AM)
lI know you were joking

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:34 AM)
i'm not mad.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:37 AM)
i'm teasing.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:39 AM)
lol

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:39 AM)
XD

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:42 AM)
I wasn't REALLY joking.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:48 AM)
:P

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:49 AM)
*pets the Connor*

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:50 AM)
I dont do the online dating thing anymore actually. ever

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:55 AM)
*purrs*

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:57:56 AM)
i got burned, very hard, the last time i did that.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:00 AM)
Same here.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:04 AM)
unless it's online to someone who is in my city

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:08 AM)
like, y'know, dating site or something.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:14 AM)
See... between my religion and my gaming...

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:15 AM)
My last online relationship actually ended up with me in the hospital

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:25 AM)
whoa what?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:27 AM)
It's very hard to find people

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:33 AM)
Brenna- Are you the same religion i am?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:42 AM)
I'm Mormon :)

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:44 AM)
Because that's how the last relationship with an out of city guy ended.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:47 AM)
oh, right, wholly different

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:50 AM)
i got told i was satanic.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:54 AM)
LOL

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:58:56 AM)
it's on my "Top 10 ways not to get dumped" list.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:02 AM)
Brenna is Mormon?

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:08 AM)
Whelp, there goes My chance

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:16 AM)
is in the car, driving home, after seeing the guy for a weekend, having sex with him, and having him call you halfway home to tell you youre satanic

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:18 AM)
that one, SUCKED.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:19 AM)
I got told "I can't date you cause you're not really a Christian and I can't date anyone who is that deluded"

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:40 AM)
Connor... I don't insist on my dates being LDS

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:41 AM)
i think i still win

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:45 AM)
just that they understand

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:52 AM)
I'm Agnostic hon

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:54 AM)
Honestly- a lot of alt religion girls are the same way

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 11:59:59 AM)
we just dont want to be berated/degraded/converted

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:04 PM)
i'mc urrently dating a lapsed catholic

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:08 PM)
Exactly

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:12 PM)
our dinner conversations would be interesting...to say the least. if not down right hostile

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:17 PM)
he knows i'm pagan and has no issue as long as i dont drag him into it or insist he be involved

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:25 PM)
and i said it's fine, just dont try to talk me out of it.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:31 PM)
I would be happy with that

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:41 PM)
I...

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:45 PM)
what? Hostile dinner conversations?

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:53 PM)
No it hink the chats lagging for one or the other of you

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:00:56 PM)
no the "Don't make me go with you"

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:01 PM)
oh

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:07 PM)
No, religion is a persons choice

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:09 PM)
I get defensive over hostile

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:11 PM)
I just got out of the Navy.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:17 PM)
*whinces*

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:24 PM)
So the last guy I dated online...

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:25 PM)
I just defended EVERYONE's ability to practice how they chose.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:43 PM)
Navy, was out in Gorton til about 2 months ago

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:01:51 PM)
Would be EXTREMELY hypocritical of me to say "BLARGH!!! you have to be "Insert random religion"*

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:02:11 PM)
Decided on his way here to get a girlfriend in GA... but didn't tell me when he got here to report in

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:02:33 PM)
He's a Submariner?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:02:37 PM)
yep

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:02:38 PM)
So was I.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:02:40 PM)
Where are you?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:02:46 PM)
Puget sound

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:02:50 PM)
FML

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:02:52 PM)
he got Bangor

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:03:16 PM)
Good luck to him.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:03:23 PM)
one of his shipmates felt bad for me and hit me with a clue by four about the other girl

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:03:38 PM)
It's not an easy life...*Just got out of 5 years Submarinering*

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:03:45 PM)
I wont date navy

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:03:58 PM)
See, I would of been a good Navy girlfriend

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:03:59 PM)
i had a girlfriend engaged to a guy in the navy. i thought she was crazy. she didnt see him for like 6+ months at a time or longer

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:07 PM)
i cant do it. i cant. i want someone here.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:09 PM)
Why not Brenna?

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:16 PM)
SD, I can understand.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:32 PM)
was raised in the military family, used to moving and other weird military things

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:37 PM)
most of my life is online

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:38 PM)
I'm used to moving. yes.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:41 PM)
but my dad was Air force

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:43 PM)
loyal

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:46 PM)
he would go away for TDY but he was home most of the time

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:52 PM)
which is different than navy

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:04:53 PM)
And self amusing

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:05:37 PM)
So while he was out of contact for three months, I'd likely just enjoy playing WoW more often then normal then have a huge party when he got back where I made up for him being gone

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:05:51 PM)
And that's ok

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:06:06 PM)
Most submariners should be so lucky

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:06:14 PM)
Very true.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:07:06 PM)
my ex and I were the longest relationship I've ever had. 1.5 years.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:07:30 PM)
She left me 5 days before getting married.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:07:34 PM)
whoa

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:07:37 PM)
what a bitch~

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:07:38 PM)
the girls at church keep trying to set me up with nice guys

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:07:39 PM)
then continued to live in my house for another 3 months

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:07:40 PM)
Whoa

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:09:24 PM)
Yeah.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:09:38 PM)
Finally a couple months ago i couldn't take it. said i was going to kill myself.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:10:17 PM)
I had reenlisted for her. then all this happened, and they diagnosed me with Depression, and we're tossing me outta the Navy on a Personality Disorder...so I was still required to pay back my enlistment bonus.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:10:50 PM)
O.o

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:11:00 PM)
i'm sorry connor

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:11:04 PM)
So I basicly felt like I had nothing left to live for.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:11:07 PM)
I'd be depressed too

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:11:17 PM)
Girls are evil

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:11:22 PM)
Luckily..I live in my home town...so I told my mom, and she forced me to go to the hospital

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:11:22 PM)
I know, I am one

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:13:06 PM)
*snugs the Connor*

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:13:11 PM)
*snugs*

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:13:35 PM)
When I got back home...we had another fight because on of the conditions of my discharge was that I tell her she has 7 days to get her shit and get out of my house.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:13:45 PM)
See I would just be happy with someone who wants marriage and kids and doesn't mind if the kids go to church with me

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:13:49 PM)
That's what I want

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:14:13 PM)
And good doctor!

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:14:14 PM)
I did...and she said she couldn't do it, so we got into a huge fight, where i was visibly shaking by the end of it because i wanted to knock her into the middle of next century

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:14:24 PM)
Brenna...I'm down for all that

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:14:54 PM)
Open minded about my church is a plus, and into LARPing is also a plus

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:15:02 PM)
HELL YEAH

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:15:05 PM)
Bring on the larp!

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:15:27 PM)
Ok *drags Connor to WA and hides him under her bed*

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:15:33 PM)
Ack!

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:15:47 PM)
I want a little girl

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:15:57 PM)
Just because I want to be the overprotective father thingy

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:14 PM)
I want 2 or 3 kids

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:16 PM)
did crazy bitch eventually leave?

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:20 PM)
that's so insane. you dont DITCH your fiancee

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:22 PM)
She better have

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:27 PM)
then stay in his house without ACTIVELY going "omg, must move NOW"

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:30 PM)
Yes. She left a week after i got hom

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:40 PM)
i mean i can see it taking a few days. a couple weeks in a place hard to find housing

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:41 PM)
good

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:44 PM)
SD

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:50 PM)
yuh?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:16:53 PM)
I still live with my exboyfriend

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:17:01 PM)
but we did get a bigger place

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:17:15 PM)
so when he pisses me off, I can hide in my room

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:17:16 PM)
She said she was trying...but that it was my fault for making her pay rent and utilities...that house cost me 2000 a month in rent an utilities...I paid 95% of it, she paid me about 150 a month.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:17:27 PM)
And I got him a new girlfriend

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:27 PM)
Brenna- it's not "his" place though?

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:31 PM)
he's paying his share?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:37 PM)
yeah

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:37 PM)
Connor- see, that's crap

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:46 PM)
I'm too nice for my own good.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:48 PM)
we split the rent with our roommates

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:51 PM)
And she took advantage of it

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:51 PM)
150 a month isn't enough to make a dent in anyone's budget or shouldnt be if that's all you pay for rent and utilities

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:55 PM)
did she not have a job or somethign?

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:18:59 PM)
Brenna- see that's different then

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:19:05 PM)
It was really akward til we got the bigger place though

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:19:10 PM)
She did, but apparently that was all she could afford.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:19:11 PM)
sarah and todd were my roommates when they hooked up and after the break up

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:19:17 PM)
we didnt change how the house money worked

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:19:25 PM)
that's bs unless she didnt work much

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:19:29 PM)
or had a real crap job

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:19:34 PM)
Subway

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:19:45 PM)
yeah we really just changed the sleeping arrangements

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:20:05 PM)
sad part is...I still haven't even broke down yet about it.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:20:22 PM)
I was 5 days...5 from marrying this woman...first woman i ever TRUELY loved.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:20:39 PM)
poor thing

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:14 PM)
It happens...right now i'm kinda on a just binge sex thing.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:23 PM)
and drinking heavily at night.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:25 PM)
lol

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:32 PM)
Connor, the drinking wont help the depression. fyi

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:34 PM)
the sex might.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:41 PM)
LOL

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:43 PM)
but yeah sometimes folks dont break for a while

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:44 PM)
I know, that's what the Zoloft is for.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:50 PM)
Right now I am trying to not have sex

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:22:52 PM)
antidepressants and booze generally dont mix

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:23:02 PM)
the voice of experience is talking here.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:23:08 PM)
and I took Zoloft for my PTSD... that is a really heavy drug for me

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:23:16 PM)
generally they don't, but i'm irish, trying to tell me not to drink is like telling water, not to be wet. just doens't happen

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:23:24 PM)
haven't been on it for about 3 years now

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:23:43 PM)
but I can remember when I realised I couldn't be suicidal was because of it

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:23:57 PM)
I'm not suicidal anymore.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:24:06 PM)
If I forgot to take my meds... I would be so depressed I couldn't move, let alone try

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:24:26 PM)
only thing I'm going to say that, if this shit happens again...I might not be able to stop myself.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:24:53 PM)
Well i highly doubt that that same series of events will repeat

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:24:57 PM)
*pets and cuddles* Why do girls have to break the nice guys

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:24:59 PM)
my advice? find a girl who is self sufficient.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:09 PM)
a lot of guys are intimidated by the strong ones

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:17 PM)
but find a girl who pays her own rent and buys her own bling. and wants you for you

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:18 PM)
I'm not

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:19 PM)
not your money.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:24 PM)
I would love a nice guy but by the time I find one they are already broken

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:29 PM)
Most of them are at our age

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:34 PM)
and ic ant say that the women are any different

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:39 PM)
Wanna heal my tourtured soul Brenna :P

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:25:42 PM)
\most of the nice ones have been broken by someone by the time you get to our age

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:26:03 PM)
See... I like you and all but you want sex and I'm trying to not have sex!

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:26:19 PM)
It's my greatest failing as an LDS girl

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:26:37 PM)
The whole celebate till married thing?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:26:40 PM)
I can handle the no coffee, and not smoking

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:26:47 PM)
I smoke...

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:26:51 PM)
I drink hella coffee

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:26:52 PM)
I'm divorced, I know what I am missing

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:00 PM)
nevermind then.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:09 PM)
Murr?

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:17 PM)
I thought you were untainted.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:20 PM)
lol

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:21 PM)
You're not. So it's all good!

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:35 PM)
I've been divorced 10 years now

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:43 PM)
How old are you?.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:43 PM)
you're divorced?!??!

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:45 PM)
wait WHAT?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:47 PM)
30

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:51 PM)
oh..ok.

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:51 PM)
O.o

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:56 PM)
Wait a minute yo'ure older than me??!?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:27:58 PM)
SD you never read my facebook do you

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:28:00 PM)
you dont look it wtf!!!!

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:28:02 PM)
no i dont read facebook

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:28:04 PM)
LOL

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:28:15 PM)
Brenna, look up David Vantuyl

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:28:21 PM)
I got married shortly after I was 19

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:28:42 PM)
I divorced him for being a lying cheating abusive selfish prick before I was 21

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:28:50 PM)
Brenna, I'l marry you, so long as I don't have to play WoW, but I can play STO

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:29:14 PM)
You're fine

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:29:17 PM)
Sweet

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:29:21 PM)
So let's get hitched.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:29:24 PM)
I like having different but simular hobbies

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:29:25 PM)
SD...You'll officiate

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:29:54 PM)
And I was a bit of a Trekkie growing up

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:29:59 PM)
*cries* i'm almost 30

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:01 PM)
*CRIES*

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:06 PM)
I'm 25, shush you 2

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:06 PM)
I'm not supposed to be old..

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:14 PM)
I'm 26 almost 27 in like 3 weeks

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:15 PM)
*wails*

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:22 PM)
SD...Shut..the fuck up

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:24 PM)
SD.... sush

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:36 PM)
I turned 30 almost 6 months ago

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:36 PM)
Srsly...27...you are not old.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:42 PM)
you're ripe.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:44 PM)
How's that

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:47 PM)
my friends are going "she's almost 30"

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:48 PM)
and no it's not okay

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:53 PM)
I'm starting to worry that I will never have kids

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:30:53 PM)
i'm still fat and done nothing i want to do and hate things

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:00 PM)
*goes to find the vodka*

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:09 PM)
Get a kinect

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:09 PM)
You own a chat...HEY...save some for me!

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:17 PM)
I need one of those.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:20 PM)
you'll lose weight just fine that way

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:30 PM)
Dance Central is kicking my ass

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:37 PM)
Brenna...*pokes her to facebook* go find me.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:41 PM)
But it's so fun

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:46 PM)
I don't know your name!

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:31:50 PM)
David Vantuyl

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:32:33 PM)
I've been losing weight pretty steadily since summer

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:32:48 PM)
though it's slowed a bit for holidays since I keep giving in and eating cheese

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:32:59 PM)
*has lots of benadryl*

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:33:22 PM)
Cheese is good.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:33:47 PM)
I'm allergic to cows milk

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:33:54 PM)
Ouch...

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:33:56 PM)
I think

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:33:59 PM)
Yeah

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:34:03 PM)
yeah i keep gaining

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:34:06 PM)
See I have this thing called asthma

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:34:20 PM)
I'm telling you Siggy... cut the milk

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:34:34 PM)
It's how they fatten up baby cows, and we are not baby cows

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:35:02 PM)
And I finally got into my XL shirts again

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:35:12 PM)
5 more pounds and they will look good on me too

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:35:17 PM)
keep it going

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:35:28 PM)
My goal right now is under 200 for my brother's wedding

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:35:44 PM)
I think I can do it, it's 2 and a half months away

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:12 PM)
nice. my goal is..uh, loose the 6 pounds i've gained.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:33 PM)
I did gain 2 back because of all the holiday parties

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:35 PM)
and how much do you weigh?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:42 PM)
but then we got the kinect and that's helping

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:46 PM)
....are you shitting me?

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:49 PM)
I'm not telling you that!

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:51 PM)
I started at 235

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:52 PM)
LOL

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:58 PM)
yeah i wiegh more than brenna did

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:36:59 PM)
I'm down to 215 now

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:02 PM)
i'm at like...246

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:06 PM)
i was down to 238 then i got hellatiously sick

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:09 PM)
I'm shorter then you hun

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:17 PM)
..fair point. i have several inches on you in height.

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:18 PM)
...170

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:20 PM)
yeah

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:27 PM)
dont you say a damn word about me being fat. i know i am

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:28 PM)
I'm tiny

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:40 PM)
I'm about 5'2

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:37:48 PM)
but alot of mine is muscle

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:38:01 PM)
Used to make the recruiters twitch to weight me

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:38:04 PM)
She's butch, lol

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:38:11 PM)
Connor

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:38:20 PM)
I did MCJROTC in high school

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:38:28 PM)
....yeow.

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:38:49 PM)
I weighed in every week of my JR year to prep for my PFT before I was supposed to head to boot camp

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:39:07 PM)
They wanted me under 133 because of my heifht

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:39:34 PM)
I came in at 136 every single freaking time so they always had to tape/pinch me

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:40:17 PM)
As a note, I never had to really watch my weight because even though I was over, I always passed the second test

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:40:33 PM)
I'm not big boned either... just... farm girl

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:40:47 PM)
I always had a little muscle on me

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:41:03 PM)
It happens when you're a Mormon...

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:41:08 PM)
..i just got screwed by mother nature

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:41:10 PM)
nope

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:41:13 PM)
I'm a convert

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:41:18 PM)
SD

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:41:29 PM)
10 years undiagnosed horomone disorders and drs didnt wanna treat an underactive thyroid becuase it was borderline and kids are "medicated too much"

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:41:53 PM)
my doctor actually told me last week he wants to try and get rid of some of my muscle because he thinks it's an outward sign of the under lying problem

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:42:27 PM)
yeah my testorone has been running high since puberty they think

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:42:39 PM)
Hense the competitiveness, and the extra muscle

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:42:43 PM)
You could always be buckin for a sex change op

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:42:52 PM)
No I'm a girl

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:42:58 PM)
Now@

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:43:01 PM)
I like being a girl

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:43:08 PM)
Now you do ;)

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:43:17 PM)
I just also like being the girl who can take care of themselves

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:43:26 PM)
Which scares mormon boys

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:43:38 PM)
I'll never be a perfect housewife though

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:43:55 PM)
I have opinions and I like challenge

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:44:52 PM)
and I still think part of that has nothing to do with hormones and everything to do with all the shit that happened as I grew up to cause the PTSD

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:45:11 PM)
Learning to take back control made me not want to give it up, you know?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:46:53 PM)
Can I keep him SD? He likes Rocko's Modren life, he'd get why my mom calls me Hef

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:47:51 PM)
huh?

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:48:10 PM)
lol

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:48:12 PM)
nothing

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:48:20 PM)
Sorry guys, I got to run, time for church

Brenna Owen (Dec 19, 2010 12:48:29 PM)
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Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:48:55 PM)
Cricket...cricket

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:51:28 PM)
hey sorry i'm kinda busy this morning

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:51:33 PM)
i gotta jet *hugs* be well connor

SignalDancer (Dec 19, 2010 12:51:35 PM)
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Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:51:36 PM)
Later

Connor Jameson (Dec 19, 2010 12:51:39 PM)
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