Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:49:36 PM)
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glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 10:50:23 PM)
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Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 10:50:30 PM)
OK...
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 10:50:49 PM)
Clearly some things need to be aired out so everyone can just stop, breathe and enjoy playing right?
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 10:51:12 PM)
yes please.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 10:51:51 PM)
Bethany, I know you've been feeling very upset and hurt and I understand that so I would like you to go first and explain your side without us interupting.
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:52:16 PM)
i want blonde to back the fuck up off my man
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:52:42 PM)
i understand he likes to role play he always has and he is awesome
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 10:52:49 PM)
Ok. I know youre upset but lets try to handle this calmly. Being hostile is just gonna make this whole thing get mean real fast.
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:54:00 PM)
i understand that the situation that renzo is in is tenuous and that the political ascpets of this game are part of what draws him. i get that. I am tired of being on the outside
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:54:44 PM)
i dont trust any situation she is in and i know i have a right to. what has been done and said made areally bad situation even worse and knowing this she keeps up.
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:55:59 PM)
to be honest i am angry hurt and untrustful of anything that comes out of her mouth. I am tired of its "just roleplay". she wanted my man admitted it and even if it says ic i am uncomrfortable with it or her
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:57:17 PM)
i have already see a two sided set of responses and thomas is a kind gentle man who will take up for the hurt deer anytime he is able. i am sick of it. i am sick of she is so sweet and nice and would never do that ITS FUKCING BULLLLLLLLLLLLL SHIT
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 10:58:29 PM)
Bethany
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:58:32 PM)
i know what was said between thomas and i the day i finally confronted him about HER i l know that i will not give up that I love him with my whole soul
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 10:58:33 PM)
I am sorry
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 10:58:56 PM)
and you are right... stuff was said between Thomas and I, that is regrettably nothing I can take back.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 10:59:15 PM)
But I have not said a word to him that is indecent since he said all contact needs to stop like that.
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:59:18 PM)
and yet you still wont go away so we can fix us. you keep pushing and he keeps taking your side
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 10:59:30 PM)
Ok let Laurel speak now.
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 10:59:40 PM)
*is quiet*
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 10:59:44 PM)
I offered to take away the RP aspect .
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 10:59:51 PM)
He said you said it was okay.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:00:27 PM)
So I apologise for agreeing that it would be when I know as a woman, it probably wouldn't be.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:00:57 PM)
I have 2 children and I'm in much the same situation as you I think
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:01:02 PM)
So I apologise.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:01:12 PM)
I'm trying to fix things with my husband as well..
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:01:23 PM)
and I wouldn't appreciate an outside distraction either
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:01:47 PM)
I can honestly tell you that nothing we discuss anymore goes beyong IC and the stuff that does is about the weather
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:01:51 PM)
or something about my kid,
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:01:56 PM)
nothing other than that.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:02:02 PM)
if that also is too much...
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:02:03 PM)
I get it.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:02:14 PM)
and we can end this affiliation IC as well if it will help you.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:02:18 PM)
I get it.. I understand.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:02:25 PM)
Please stop calling me "the bitch"
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:02:59 PM)
because beyond what your perceieved notion of me is...I'm a mature adult.. going through my own bullshit... and I'm sorry to contribute to yours... so I'll do whatever you need to make it better.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:03:47 PM)
Thomas, you wanna say anything?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:07:21 PM)
I enjoy roleplaying with Laural. I like the situations that Renzo and Rylie get into that have everything to do with their crazy silly IC personalities. But I'm not willing to put undue drama on anyone over this. This is a game. If the fun of it isn't worth any baggage that goes along we've failed. And I'm willing to step back in any way if that's the case.
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:10:50 PM)
I wouldnt dream of taking his rp away. What you both need to see is that I am not wrong in my feelings when i see IC things of a sexual or romantic nature from someone who has admitted to having irl interest in my man. I wish you happiness and health and a good home for your kids. I have yet to say otherwise. I lashed out and have called you a bitch several times. That is how i feel about you. If you would have for 2 seconds thought about how I would feel as yet ag ain i find you practiaclly naked and up on him again and again you would have called me much more . I have admitted to Thomas that i have a jealous streak a mile wide. I am trying to deal with that. i am trying to heal us yet i feel you keep pouring salt into my open would on purpose every chance you get. i hurt i dont like you i dont trust you. i dont know what to do . All i know is yet again all of my senses are firing off afraid and angry and yet again i have pissed off the one person I want to hold on to . Thomas is my heart .I feel he
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:12:05 PM)
forget the I feel he part changed what i was saying
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:12:29 PM)
Thomas were you done?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:13:10 PM)
I think Bethany is talking with her emotions and it's blocking the point she's trying to get across. Let me ask this.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:13:22 PM)
Bethany, what would I need to change about my rp with Laural that would make you happy?
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:13:53 PM)
I dont know. I cant be comfortable with any intamacy with her in any form or fashion i dont trust it
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:05 PM)
Even if it's in character?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:13 PM)
Or fade to black? Or what?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:16 PM)
Can you be specific please?
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:29 PM)
how would she feel if an irl thingy was ic like that with her man? what am i supposed to say.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:46 PM)
I have an idea.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:48 PM)
Can I pipe in here a sec?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:53 PM)
Please, Del.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:54 PM)
Go ahead Del.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:55 PM)
Ok, go ahead, Laurel.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:14:59 PM)
No.. you first..
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:15:00 PM)
Ok nevermind, I will lol
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:15:07 PM)
i love being told renzo is gonna get her naked and snuggle that makes me feel all fab inside
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:15:21 PM)
I never said that to you?
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:15:31 PM)
he told me that was his intent
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:15:44 PM)
How am I to be responsible for something I didn't say?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:15:46 PM)
Bethany, let Del speak.
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:16:09 PM)
the next thing i know there are snuggles and underwear and i ma just as uncomfortable
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:16:12 PM)
sorry go ahead del
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:20:00 PM)
There have been times throughout my years RPing with my husband where I felt insecure and even went off on him because of my own insecurities. Eventually we found a happy medium buy discussing it -calmly-, me telling him how I felt and him expressing his feelings on the matter. The reason I brought this up was because I think its important to find a middle ground for both people. Thomas enjoys RPing, whether its with Laurel or anyone else. Bethany is feeling insecure about romantic RP. So, as Thomas asked, would it be comfortable if he were to Fade to Black? Ian and I also have a rule about looking at each others screens when we're Rping because we know whoever does, isnt going to see the whole scene, just the part thats currently up which might really be read wrong.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:22:32 PM)
Okay.. enough
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:22:41 PM)
I vote to shelve the bond.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:22:46 PM)
I get to play my character
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:22:49 PM)
he gets to play his
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:22:54 PM)
Also I would like to add, and sorry if you get upset at me for saying this, Laurel, but I really wanna let you know that Laurel has NO intentions toward Thomas other then a friend.
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:22:55 PM)
i dissagree
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:22:58 PM)
and Bethany doesn't have to feel threatened.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:23:01 PM)
thats fine with me
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:23:35 PM)
and I don't care if you disagree or not
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:23:38 PM)
I'm doing this for me
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:23:52 PM)
that is part of why he likes to play renzo is the powerstrugle politics of the bond. i just want all romance sex or anything like that out. I dont trust it since there is an issue
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:23:59 PM)
Okay
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:24:03 PM)
so you don't trust it
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:24:07 PM)
I'm giving you what you want
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:24:12 PM)
what more can I do Bethany?
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:25:29 PM)
cant you jsut block it out instead of the in detail crap. i makes me feel uncomfortable. I like thomas having a good time rp. i jsut have issue as there is a real life issue there it just makes it more uncomfortable
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:25:47 PM)
I didn't know you were over his shoulder reading his screens babe.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:26:03 PM)
I get why you'd feel uncomfortable if thats whats going on
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:26:17 PM)
I just wanna be done with this nonsense all together
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:26:26 PM)
my vote of shelving the bond... stands
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:26:46 PM)
I don't want to be involved in anything thats gonna stress your relationship IRL.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:27:04 PM)
Thomas?
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:28:31 PM)
ok i will not be back on here
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:28:38 PM)
let thomas rp as he wants
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:28:43 PM)
its not worth it
Savina Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:28:46 PM)
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glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:28:53 PM)
I don't understand...at all.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:28:57 PM)
Crap.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:29:22 PM)
Ok, what do YOU TWO wanna do about your PCs?
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:29:33 PM)
Lets at least cover that right now since youre both here.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:29:38 PM)
I don't even fucking know.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:29:43 PM)
Renzo never woke up from the torp?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:29:50 PM)
Blood Bond dies?
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:29:50 PM)
To be honest... we haven't been doing anything horrible
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:29:54 PM)
hon, I really dont wanna see you stop playing.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:07 PM)
I can take a hiatus... if that helps
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:11 PM)
I need to say something.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:11 PM)
No
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:15 PM)
I don't even care anymore at this point
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:19 PM)
Neither of you need stop playing.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:26 PM)
Ok hows about this...
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:41 PM)
lets give it a few days. Let emotions get back in check.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:45 PM)
Bethany is not usually like this. This is totally a different personality from her. I don't understand it.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:30:50 PM)
And then we can figure it out.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:31:18 PM)
fine with me.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:31:19 PM)
I value Laural as a person and a friend too much to put her through a ringer with my rabid girlfriend. It's not fair to her.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:31:34 PM)
Been through worse..
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:31:38 PM)
don't worry about that.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:31:50 PM)
I don't want to be the person thats hitching you up in real life though.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:31:56 PM)
To be honest... its not my MO.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:32:02 PM)
I know it's not.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:32:07 PM)
And being rabid isn't her MO either.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:32:17 PM)
I agree Bethany needs to understand that her insecurity is whats causing this. I agree everyone has a right to be upset with whats been said about each other or even to one another. I feel for everyone cause Ian and I went through this very thing.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:32:19 PM)
But I'm the one who needs to stop this because ultimately it's my fault.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:32:40 PM)
So please, Laural, don't stop playing.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:32:41 PM)
And Im not saying shes a bad person.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:32:43 PM)
You're a fun and awesome rper.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:32:54 PM)
I think Bethany is quite funny and nice.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:12 PM)
Thanks Del. :)
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:16 PM)
Can you X Renzo?
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:20 PM)
Nope
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:26 PM)
Okay.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:28 PM)
we're giving it a couple days remember?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:31 PM)
Sure.
glitterpixie OOC (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:37 PM)
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Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:40 PM)
Thomas..dont you vanish on me!
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:55 PM)
What do I do Del?
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:33:58 PM)
Just, go talk to her.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:03 PM)
She's like a COMPLETELY different woman.
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:08 PM)
And she's just fucked over a FRIEND.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:11 PM)
I know you feel like youve done all you can.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:14 PM)
Can we skype?
Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:22 PM)
yeah.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:24 PM)
So I dont have to type and we can take this off the chat lol
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:30 PM)
ok see you there.
Delirious (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:32 PM)
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Renzo Giovanni (Jun 4, 2011 11:34:34 PM)
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