Vicki Landon OOC (May 15, 2011 11:57:54 PM)
just messenger
Vicki Landon OOC (May 15, 2011 11:58:59 PM)
*sigh*
Vicki Landon OOC (May 15, 2011 11:59:05 PM)
and hes starting again
Dusk (May 15, 2011 11:59:12 PM)
on messenger or on chat?
Vicki Landon OOC (May 15, 2011 11:59:14 PM)
its more than the demon game
Vicki Landon OOC (May 15, 2011 11:59:25 PM)
he wants me to leave the whole site
Vicki Landon OOC (May 15, 2011 11:59:28 PM)
messenger
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:00:03 AM)
Personally I would suggest blocking him for now. Sometimes it's the healthiest thing to do for all around.
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:00:44 AM)
.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:00:48 AM)
but what if he carries out his threat
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:02:22 AM)
*Sighs* I seriously don't need all this stress and drama....
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:02:27 AM)
I have actually been in a very similiar situation real life hon. It my experience, the people that do such things are not the ones that threaten to, they are the people you least suspect. Also, it's a matter of perspective. If he is in such a bad place, you, as someone he talks to online, are not going to be able to stop him.
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:02:58 AM)
I think you have to be wary of feeding the drama by engaging in it.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:03:49 AM)
hes telling me if I don't leave the chat in 5 days he'll kill himself
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:04:01 AM)
Here's my perspective on it. This is supposed to be, in the end, fun. If someone is threatening suicide, etc because you won't do what they want...they're really not your friend, or your friendship is taking a really wrong turn.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:04:46 AM)
I agree auggy
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:05:04 AM)
i told him what he's doing is emotional blackmail
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:05:27 AM)
Once you let someone have that power over you they won't stop either. They will simply continue controlling you, your actions, your decisions with the same threat repeated. People don't do that to people they truly care about.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:06:04 AM)
I mean, i pulled Vicki from here cause he wanted to play with her on ghosts...
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:06:08 AM)
and now all this
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:06:54 AM)
I really think the only reasonable course left for you is to block him, at least for a while, from your IM's.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:07:11 AM)
*nods*
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:07:45 AM)
The team are taking this very seriously, and will review and come to a decision relatively quickly regarding the issue on SI. If he tries to contact you on here, once you have blocked him, please let an ST or Admin know immediately.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:09:04 AM)
I will
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:09:27 AM)
You know how to contact us, yeah?
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:09:37 AM)
fpm
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:09:57 AM)
But truly for your own mental health you need to disengage with it. At least for a while to give yourself a break and hopefully him perspective.
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:10:14 AM)
Or even just ask in the OOC room and someone there may be able to get a message to Auggy or I to come on.
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:10:18 AM)
Here's the faster contact infor for me - Skype: penguinauggy email auggyx@gmail.com
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:11:49 AM)
ok
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:11:54 AM)
ok
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:12:00 AM)
If Auggy isn't around my skype is Amy-Dee
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:12:14 AM)
Ive got him calm
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:12:21 AM)
I told him he needed help
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:12:32 AM)
and he really does
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:12:50 AM)
as in the 5 yrs Ive known him, h e's never been like this
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:13:51 AM)
Obviously he does need a break from the online rp thing, and some help from people around him in his day to day life that know him. Old friends, family etc
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:13:56 AM)
which is why, I guess, its scaring mre so bad
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:14:50 AM)
Of course hon, but you have to remember; you're not there, you can't be responsible for what he does.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:15:01 AM)
I know
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:15:40 AM)
Also there is the possibility that it is a power play to gain control over you more than anything else.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:15:56 AM)
I know that too
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:16:16 AM)
he's apologized again and told me i was right, he needs help
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:16:44 AM)
I'm really pleased to hear that. Have you jotted down the contact details for Auggy and myself?
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:19:16 AM)
No...sitting in the dark actually. Any way you guys could fpm them>?
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:22:00 AM)
Okay done. Remember if he starts pm'ing you or talking to you on here you can always ask that someone in the ooc room contact one of us, usually someone can grab an admin or demon team member on skype even if none of us are logged into the chat.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:22:37 AM)
ok. sounds good
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:23:01 AM)
Is there anything else you would like us to do to help?
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:23:15 AM)
no, im good. thanks for listening
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:24:42 AM)
Anytime. Pleaes feel free to contact us if you need any help.
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:25:33 AM)
i eill
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:25:49 AM)
thanks for logging in to talk to us :)
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:27:31 AM)
ty
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:27:34 AM)
and yw
Vicki Landon OOC (May 16, 2011 12:27:40 AM)
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Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:27:53 AM)
Just... wow
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:27:58 AM)
thanks again for coming in Auggy :)
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:28:09 AM)
I have no additional comment.
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:28:15 AM)
No worries, hey?
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:28:31 AM)
yep?
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:28:41 AM)
yep.
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:28:57 AM)
Now I'm going to see what else this world has to offer me.
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:29:02 AM)
lol sorry your "hey?" made me think a question was going to follow
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:29:20 AM)
*snurk* Sorry. I'm going to...go find aspirin.
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:29:28 AM)
Meanwhile I'm going to go sanction!
Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:29:30 AM)
later :)
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:29:33 AM)
WOO!
auggy (May 16, 2011 12:29:35 AM)
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Dusk (May 16, 2011 12:29:45 AM)
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